19 min 56 sec

Likeable Social Media: How To Delight Your Customers, Create an Irresistible Brand, & Be Generally Amazing On All Social Networks That Matter

By Dave Kerpen

Transform your brand by moving beyond traditional advertising. This guide explores how authentic engagement, active listening, and customer collaboration on social media can turn a business into a truly likeable and irresistible force.

Table of Content

In the mid-20th century, the formula for business success felt relatively straightforward. If you had a product to sell, you bought a billboard on a busy highway, aired a jingle on the radio, or placed a full-page ad in the Sunday newspaper. It was a world of ‘shouting’—one-way communication where the brand with the loudest voice and the biggest budget usually won the day. You pushed your message out into the world and hoped it landed on fertile soil. But as we move deeper into the twenty-first century, that top-down model isn’t just fading; it’s largely broken.

Today, the power has shifted from the corporate boardroom to the consumer’s smartphone. We live in an era where a single tweet can do more to build or break a reputation than a million-dollar television campaign. The wall between companies and their customers has crumbled, replaced by a digital landscape that functions more like a giant, global town square than a quiet marketplace. This means the rules of engagement have changed entirely. It’s no longer about who can shout the loudest; it’s about who is the most likeable.

In this summary, we are going to explore a new way of doing business that prioritizes connection over transactions. We’ll look at why the most successful modern brands spend more time listening than they do talking. We’ll dive into the mechanics of digital rapport, exploring how social media platforms allow us to treat thousands of people with the same intimacy you’d offer a neighbor. From the technical precision of targeted advertising to the ancient art of storytelling, this is a guide to navigating the social web with grace, authenticity, and a spirit of collaboration. Whether you’re a small business owner or a marketing executive, the goal is the same: to stop acting like a faceless entity and start acting like a partner your customers can actually like.

Traditional marketing focuses on speaking, but the modern digital landscape rewards those who listen first. Discover why monitoring online conversations is the most effective way to prevent crises.

Modern advertising allows for unprecedented demographic accuracy. Learn how one small, personal experiment proved that you can reach exactly who you want without wasting a single penny.

Authenticity is the currency of the social web. Move away from cold corporate scripts and embrace a personal voice to build trust and resolve conflicts in the public eye.

Your customers are your best advisors. By involving them in the creative process, you create products they are already invested in and build a community of loyal advocates.

Facts tell, but stories sell. Explore how sharing personal narratives—from wild weddings to professional blogs—can create an emotional bond that transcends traditional marketing.

Social media is too important to be left to just one department. Learn how to weave digital engagement into sales, R&D, and even your physical product packaging.

Going above and beyond with small, unexpected gestures can turn a casual observer into a lifelong fan. Discover how to use spontaneity to stand out in a crowded market.

The transition to becoming a likeable brand isn’t just about changing your profile picture or posting more often. It’s a fundamental shift in how you view your relationship with the world. The era of the one-way broadcast is over, and the era of the human, listening, and collaborative business has arrived. By embracing authenticity, responding with empathy, and inviting your customers to be part of your story, you build something far more durable than a customer list: you build a community.

As we’ve seen, the tools are already in your hands. You can use precision targeting to reach the right people, use storytelling to win their hearts, and use active listening to keep their trust. But the most important takeaway is simply to be human. Don’t be afraid to admit when you’ve made a mistake. A public apology, handled with grace and a solution, can often do more for your reputation than a thousand perfect posts.

Your actionable next step is simple: start listening today. Go to your preferred social platform and search for what people are saying about you, your competitors, or the problems your business solves. Find one person you can help, one person you can thank, or one person you can surprise with a kind word. The path to being an irresistible brand starts with a single, authentic interaction. In a digital world that can often feel cold and automated, being truly likeable is your greatest competitive advantage.

About this book

What is this book about?

For decades, businesses operated on a one-way street, pushing messages out to consumers through billboards and television spots with little hope of a real-time response. This book marks a radical departure from that old-school philosophy, arguing that the digital age requires a more human, transparent, and interactive approach to commerce. It provides a strategic roadmap for leveraging platforms like Facebook and Twitter not just as bullhorns, but as tools for building genuine relationships. The core promise of the work is that by becoming more 'likeable,' a brand can foster immense loyalty and drive word-of-mouth growth. Readers will learn the mechanics of targeted advertising, the psychology behind why people share stories, and the operational shifts necessary to integrate social media into every department, from customer service to product development. By focusing on listening rather than shouting, and on delighting rather than just selling, any organization can transform its digital presence into a vibrant community that thrives on mutual respect and shared value.

Book Information

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Genra:

Entrepreneurship & Startups, Marketing & Sales

Topics:

Branding, Customer Success, Marketing, Social Media Marketing

Publisher:

McGraw-Hill Education

Language:

English

Publishing date:

February 14, 2019

Lenght:

19 min 56 sec

About the Author

Dave Kerpen

Dave Kerpen is a prominent author, sought-after speaker, and the co-founder of the award-winning social media marketing agency Likeable Media. Recognized as a leader in building people-centric organizations, he has shared his insights through several influential books, including Likeable Business and Likeable Leadership. He is also the author of The Art of People, which details eleven fundamental skills for achieving success through better interpersonal relationships.

Ratings & Reviews

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4.3

Overall score based on 173 ratings.

What people think

Listeners find the quality of information to be quite high, with one review mentioning it is packed with rich real-world examples. The book is also praised for being easy to read, with one listener describing it as a must-read for everyone who works with people.

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Plernpiriya

Picked this up on a whim, but the chapter on storytelling completely changed how I approach my brand’s digital presence. Not gonna lie, I used to just blast advertisements, but Kerpen explains why that 'monologue' style is the fastest way to get ignored in a crowded news feed. The anecdote about the Las Vegas hotel tweet was a total lightbulb moment for me because it shows how a single interaction can steal a customer from a competitor. In my experience, people are tired of being sold to; they want to be heard and engaged with like actual human beings. The book is packed with rich, real-world examples that make the concepts feel attainable rather than just theoretical. It is truly a must-read for anyone who works with people, regardless of whether you are a CEO or a freelance blogger. I found the writing style incredibly accessible and finished the whole thing in just two sittings.

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Sayan

Wow, I finally understand why our Twitter feed was getting zero engagement before I sat down with this book. The difference between a monologue and a dialogue seems obvious now, but Kerpen explains the shift in a way that feels revolutionary for a small business owner. I particularly loved the '18 ways to be amazing' structure because it provides a clear roadmap for daily activities. In my experience, most business books are dry and academic, but this one felt like getting advice from a mentor over coffee. The real-world examples, like the story of the restaurant finding success on Facebook, provided the spark of inspiration I needed to revamp our strategy. Not gonna lie, I was skeptical about the storytelling chapter, but it really works for building a loyal fanbase. This is essential reading for anyone trying to navigate the messy world of online reputation management without losing their mind.

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Game

After hearing about this book for years, I was impressed by how Kerpen simplifies complex digital dynamics into actionable steps. The reality is that social media isn't just a platform; it's the new word-of-mouth, and this book teaches you how to master that conversation. I found the chapter on being authentic and honest when things go wrong to be particularly powerful in today's 'cancel culture' environment. Kerpen’s writing is punchy, direct, and filled with a passion that is frankly contagious. Even the older examples serve as great case studies for the fundamental human desire to be recognized and valued by the brands we support. It is a fantastic overview for any marketer who wants to move beyond the technical 'how-to' and understand the emotional 'why-to.' This book genuinely makes you want to be a better, more responsive professional. I’ve already recommended it to several colleagues in the non-profit sector who were struggling to find their voice.

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Watcharin

As someone who works in customer service, I think Kerpen hits the nail on the head regarding the 'cocktail party' metaphor for social media. You don't want to be the person shouting about yourself in the corner; you want to be the one people actually want to talk to. To be fair, some of the platform-specific advice is a bit dated now, but the underlying psychology of being 'likeable' remains timeless. The appendix is probably the most valuable part of the entire book because it breaks down the specific strengths of each network. I appreciated the case studies, especially the bit about IBM using search functions to find sales leads through social listening. My only real gripe is that the book trivializes how hard it is to change a rigid corporate culture to be more open. Still, the action items at the end of the chapters are concrete and very easy to implement immediately.

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Moon

Dave Kerpen makes a compelling case for being 'likeable' rather than just 'present' on digital platforms. Personally, I loved how he emphasized that your customers are already talking about you, so you might as well join the conversation. The book is an excellent primer for those who still view social media as a fad or a waste of business time. I specifically enjoyed the breakdown of how to handle negative feedback without becoming defensive or corporate. However, I have to agree with other reviewers that the author spends a bit too much time talking about his own agency's wins. It’s a minor distraction in an otherwise very readable and encouraging guide to modern branding. The focus on transparency and authenticity is exactly what’s missing from most traditional marketing textbooks. It’s a solid four-star read for its ability to simplify complex social dynamics into something any business owner can understand.

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Javier

Finally got around to reading this classic, and the real-world examples are surprisingly still relevant for building a genuine community. The central theme of 'delighting' your customers through social media is something every service-based business should take to heart. I especially appreciated the emphasis on listening over talking, as most brands still treat their social pages like a digital megaphone. The book is incredibly easy to navigate; you don't even have to read the chapters in order to get value from it. Gotta say, the advice on avoiding self-promotion-only feeds is something many 'influencers' today still haven't learned. While it could use more hard numbers regarding profit and ROI, the qualitative benefits of building a 'likeable' brand are made very clear. It’s a light, breezy read that actually makes you feel excited about marketing again. A must-have for your office desk or bedside table if you’re looking for quick bits of inspiration.

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Manee

Not what I expected from a business book, as it feels more like a conversation with a mentor than a dry textbook. Truthfully, the readability is its greatest strength, making it accessible even for those who are completely bewildered by the internet. I liked the focus on how consumers actually shop—using ratings on TripAdvisor or Google Maps rather than just looking at ads. It highlights the importance of managing your reputation through actual quality rather than just clever copy. There's a bit of 'fluff' here and there, and the author's agency mentions are frequent, but the core strategies are winners. If you want to understand how to stop being a pushy salesperson and start being a person people actually like, start here. It’s a solid guide that prioritizes human interaction over algorithm hacking, which is a refreshing change of pace. I’ll be keeping this on my shelf for the appendix alone.

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Joy

Does social media marketing actually work, or are we just shouting into a void? This book attempts to answer that, though it leans heavily on 'trust me' vibes rather than rigorous statistical proof. The truth is, the advice here is solid for beginners, but seasoned marketers might find it a bit too basic and repetitive. Kerpen advocates for a dialogue-based approach which is great in theory, but he ignores the reality of limited resources in small marketing departments. I found the sections on free content and 'hooks' to be a double-edged sword; if everyone follows this, our feeds just get cluttered with the same generic advice. Look, it’s a decent starting point if you’re bewildered by Facebook, but don’t expect a masterclass in advanced analytics. The writing is conversational and fast-paced, which makes the lack of depth a bit easier to swallow. It’s a good book for inspiration, just not a technical manual.

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Priya

The book offers a solid foundation, but the tech landscape has shifted quite a bit since this was first published. Frankly, reading about BlackBerry tweets feels like a trip down memory lane rather than a cutting-edge strategy session. That said, the core principles of being responsive and helpful to your audience are still very much applicable to today's Instagram and TikTok world. I found the author’s tone a bit too 'salesy' at times, which felt ironic given the book's message about being authentic and likeable. It’s a strange paradox where the author tells you not to over-promote while simultaneously over-promoting his own services. To be fair, the section on the 'Like' button and its implications for testimonials was a very interesting detail I hadn't considered before. It’s a mixed bag—great for mindset shifts, but lacking the technical grit required for a 2024 marketing landscape. I’d recommend it as a secondary resource.

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Sawit

Is this a marketing manual or a 300-page brochure for the author's agency? Frankly, the self-promotion is thick enough to choke on, making it hard to find the actual substance between the humblebrags. While the core message of listening to your customers is valid, it feels like common sense wrapped in far too much 'water' and filler content. I was desperately searching for hard data or ROI figures, but the author relies mostly on anecdotal success stories without providing the numbers to back them up. If you've spent more than five minutes on Facebook in the last decade, most of these 'revelations' will feel like old news. It is a very easy read, which is a plus, but the lack of original, deep-dive strategy left me feeling like I’d just read a very long magazine article. Some of the tech references, like the BlackBerry mentions, really highlight how much the digital landscape has moved on since this was penned.

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