15 min 10 sec

Being Boss: Take Control of Your Work and Live Life on Your Own Terms

By Kathleen Shannon, Emily Thompson

Being Boss provides a roadmap for creative entrepreneurs to master their mindset, establish firm boundaries, and design a lifestyle that balances professional success with personal fulfillment on their own specific terms.

Table of Content

The dream of walking away from a traditional nine-to-five job to become your own master is a powerful one. Many of us envision a life where we call the shots, choose our projects, and dictate our own schedules. However, there is a significant gulf between the fantasy of self-employment and the daily reality of running a creative business. For many, the transition can feel like stepping into a void without a map, where the lack of structure becomes more overwhelming than the rigid corporate world ever was. This is where the concept of being boss comes into play. It is not just about the technicalities of entrepreneurship; it is about a holistic approach to taking control of your professional and personal life simultaneously.

In this exploration, we are going to look at how to bridge that gap between dreaming and doing. We will establish a clear throughline: that success as a creative entrepreneur requires a fusion of internal mindset and external systems. Being boss means moving through the world with deliberate intention, ensuring that every hour you spend at your desk and every hour you spend away from it serves a purpose. It is a commitment to a process that involves trust, even when the path ahead looks uncertain.

We will navigate through the essential foundations that allow a person to thrive in this lifestyle. This includes the psychological work of aligning your business with your core values, the practical work of setting boundaries to protect your creative energy, and the systemic work of building routines that turn small daily actions into long-term success. By the end of this journey, you will see how to treat your life with the same professional rigor you apply to your work, and how to treat your work with the same passion you reserve for your life. Let’s look at what it truly means to take the reins and live on your own terms.

Discover how aligning your professional life with your deepest personal values serves as the ultimate compass for decision-making and overcoming self-doubt.

Explore a powerful metaphor for resource management and learn why saying ‘no’ is the most effective tool for protecting your creative growth.

Contrast two very different approaches to daily work and learn why your morning routine is the secret engine of your productivity.

Move beyond theory and learn the essential steps of building a functional business plan and a massive network of potential collaborators.

Learn why achieving true freedom requires the same level of planning and intensity for your personal adventures as you give to your business goals.

Discover why the journey to self-employment shouldn’t be a solo mission and how a peer partnership can accelerate your growth and resilience.

As we wrap up this look into the world of being boss, it is clear that the journey from dreamer to doer is not a single leap, but a series of intentional, daily steps. We have seen that success starts from within, by anchoring your business in your deepest values and building the confidence to act on them despite the inevitable presence of imposter syndrome. We’ve learned that like a garden, your creative energy is a finite resource that must be protected with the sturdy fences of boundaries.

We explored the power of routine and the necessity of maintaining your physical and mental health as your business’s most valuable asset. We also demystified the ‘hustle,’ showing that it is a balanced combination of strategic planning, networking with a list of 200 contacts, and establishing authority through consistent content. Perhaps most importantly, we’ve recognized that being boss is a hollow victory if it doesn’t lead to a richer, more adventurous life. By planning for your personal bucket list with the same vigor you apply to your professional goals, you ensure that your work serves your life, rather than the other way around.

The throughline of all these ideas is control—taking the reins of your time, your focus, and your future. Now, it is time for you to take that first step. Identify your top five values today. Write down one boundary you need to set to protect your time. Reach out to one person who could be that ‘business best friend.’ Being boss is not a destination you reach; it is a way of moving through the world. By trusting the process and committing to your own terms, you are already well on your way.

About this book

What is this book about?

Being Boss is a comprehensive guide tailored for creative professionals who want to transition from traditional employment to self-directed success. The book dismantles the myth that business and life are separate entities, teaching readers how to integrate their work into a lifestyle that reflects their deepest values. It addresses the internal obstacles that often hold entrepreneurs back, such as imposter syndrome and lack of focus, while providing practical strategies for daily operations. The authors emphasize the importance of intention and commitment, showing that 'being boss' is a mindset rather than just a job title. Readers will learn how to build a sustainable business through healthy routines, strategic networking, and consistent content creation. The promise of the book is that by taking control of your time and energy, you can build a lucrative career that doesn't sacrifice your health, relationships, or personal passions. It is about moving from dreaming to doing, with a clear focus on actionable steps like creating a business plan and setting specific, measurable goals.

Book Information

Rating:

Genra:

Career & Success, Entrepreneurship & Startups, Personal Development

Topics:

Creative Routines, Entrepreneurship, Goal Setting, Habits, Mindset

Publisher:

Hachette

Language:

English

Publishing date:

April 10, 2018

Lenght:

15 min 10 sec

About the Author

Kathleen Shannon

Kathleen Shannon is the co-owner of a branding agency, and Emily Thompson is the creative founder of a retail company. Together, Shannon and Thompson have established a community, platform, and podcast that helps creative entrepreneurs build lucrative businesses. They’ve been featured by Entrepreneur, Forbes, and Marie Claire.

Ratings & Reviews

Ratings at a glance

4.1

Overall score based on 171 ratings.

What people think

Listeners find this work both motivating and empowering, packed with useful suggestions and hands-on guidance for entrepreneurs ranging from novices to veterans. Additionally, the book features a stunning design and offers significant insights, including specific exercises that transform it into a highly actionable tool. Listeners also enjoy the narrative style and engaging tone, with one review highlighting how various guest contributors share their personal journeys.

Top reviews

Komsan

Picked this up because I’ve been a long-time listener of the podcast, and let me tell you, the physical book does not disappoint. The design is absolutely stunning—it’s one of those books you actually want to keep on your desk for daily inspiration. Kathleen and Emily have a way of making business feel less like a grind and more like a creative journey. I loved the blend of "suit and woo," balancing hard numbers and marketing strategies with intuition and ritual. The exercises throughout are super helpful for clarifying your vision. It isn't just theory; it’s a toolkit for anyone trying to build a life on their own terms. Even if you aren't an entrepreneur yet, the sections on mindset and self-care are worth the price alone. I found myself highlighting almost every other page.

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Apichat

Wow. I didn’t expect a business book to make me feel this seen as a creative professional. Instead of the typical hustle culture nonsense that tells you to work 24/7, this guide focuses on building a business that supports your life, not the other way around. I specifically resonated with the idea of a "Mandatory Lazy Day"—it sounds simple, but it’s a radical act for a workaholic like me. The storytelling approach, featuring guest contributors, adds a lot of depth and variety to the perspectives shared. It’s gorgeously designed and feels more like a mentorship session than a textbook. I’m already recommending this to every entrepreneur in my circle who needs to remember why they started their business in the first place. This is truly special.

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Vilaiporn

As a creative business owner who's been struggling with burnout, this book felt like a deep breath of fresh air. Kathleen and Emily don't just tell you to work harder; they tell you to work smarter by honoring your intuition and setting firm boundaries. I spent an entire weekend filling out the worksheets and it really helped me reconnect with my original "why." The sections on branding and marketing were surprisingly clear and devoid of typical corporate jargon, which I appreciated. Not gonna lie, I was skeptical about the more "spiritual" elements at first, but they integrate them in a way that feels practical rather than flighty. It’s an empowering resource that I’ll definitely keep on my shelf for whenever I feel lost in the weeds.

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Ellie

This book completely shifted how I view my productivity and self-care routines. For years, I thought I had to sacrifice my health to grow my brand, but "Being Boss" taught me that those "radical acts of self-love" are actually essential for long-term success. The concept of the business plan here is refreshingly simple and focuses on what actually matters rather than 50-page documents no one reads. I’ve already started implementing the strategy to share my expertise more broadly, and the results are already showing. It’s inspiring, well-organized, and filled with the kind of spot-on advice you usually have to pay a consultant thousands for. An absolute must-read for any ambitious woman out there. My notes and highlights are everywhere!

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Chloe

The chapter on boundaries was exactly what I needed at this stage in my freelance career. Truth is, I was drowning in emails and client demands before reading this. Shannon and Thompson provide such actionable advice on how to reclaim your time without feeling guilty. They talk a lot about "being boss" of your own life, which includes your habits and personal values, not just your profit margins. I found the worksheets particularly effective for mapping out a strategy that actually feels sustainable. Sometimes the tone gets a little "influencer-heavy," but the core message remains solid. If you struggle with saying no or finding a routine that sticks, this is for you. It’s a grounded look at entrepreneurship that skips the usual toxic hustle culture.

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Sukit

After hearing so many people rave about "Being Boss," I had high expectations, and it mostly met them. It’s a very practical resource for those who are just starting out or feel stuck in their current growth phase. The way the authors organize the content—moving from personal values to business strategy—makes total sense. Personally, I think the most valuable part is the emphasis on finding a "business bestie" to share the journey with. Entrepreneurship can be incredibly lonely, and having that support system is vital. My only gripe is that some of the branding advice felt a bit basic for someone who has been in the industry for a while. Still, it’s a great refresher with plenty of inspiration and beautiful photography to keep you engaged.

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Bae

Ever wonder why some people seem to navigate the stresses of entrepreneurship so much better than others? This book suggests it’s all about the foundation you build before you even start selling. I really liked the emphasis on personal values and how they dictate your business decisions. The authors do a great job of breaking down complex ideas into manageable habits. Frankly, some of the guest stories felt a bit short, and I would have loved to dive deeper into their specific challenges. However, the overall message of taking control of your life is very motivating. It’s a solid read for anyone needing a push to finally take their creative passion seriously and treat it like the real business it is.

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Hana

Finally got around to reading this, and the first thing that struck me was the aesthetic. It is a stunningly produced book! Beyond the looks, there is a wealth of actionable advice for those trying to bridge the gap between "starving artist" and successful CEO. I especially loved the focus on the community aspect—reaching out to others and not trying to do it all alone. The advice on recruiting clients and sharing your expertise was very straightforward. Gotta say, a few of the chapters felt a little fluffy, but the overall energy is so encouraging that it’s hard to stay critical for long. It definitely gives you the confidence to start making big moves while maintaining your sanity and personal health.

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Seksan

To be fair, this is a beautiful book with some truly solid insights, but I felt like I’d heard a lot of it before in other business podcasts. If you’re a regular listener of their show, you might find some of the material repetitive and a little bit surface-level. That said, the way they present the "Suit meets Woo" philosophy is unique and helpful for those who want to balance logic with intuition. I did appreciate the sections on healthy routines and the focus on the "daily grind" being about more than just work. It’s a decent guide for beginners, but more seasoned owners might find it a bit light on advanced strategy. It’s still worth a read for the gorgeous layout and the occasional "aha" moment regarding self-care.

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Ruangrat

Look, I really wanted to love this given the rave reviews, but it just didn't click for me. Most of the advice felt very "intro to business" and lacked the technical depth I was looking for as an established author. If you’ve read any other modern entrepreneurship books, you’ve seen most of these tips on routines and "mindset" before. It felt more like a lifestyle blog in book form than a serious business manual. While the design is pretty, it doesn't make up for the lack of new information. I suppose if you are brand new to the world of creative business it might be useful, but for me, it was a bit of a letdown. I expected more concrete strategies and fewer vague rituals.

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