17 min 47 sec

You Deserve Good Gelato: Travel, Embrace Failure, and Face Your Fears

By Kacie Rose

Explore the transformative power of choosing courage over comfort as Kacie Rose shares her journey of moving to Italy, overcoming cultural hurdles, and discovering the profound joy in life’s simple pleasures.

Table of Content

Imagine for a moment that you are standing at a crossroads. Behind you is everything you know—your career, your home, the familiar comfort of your daily routine. In front of you is a completely different world, one where you don’t speak the language, you don’t understand the customs, and you have no idea how to even mail a letter. For most of us, that second path feels paralyzing. We might dream about it, but we rarely take the leap. Yet, as we are about to explore, that leap is exactly where life truly begins.

Kacie Rose found herself at this exact junction. What started as a solo vacation to Italy in 2018 turned into a life-altering romance and a move across the globe right as the world was shutting down in 2020. This wasn’t a curated, perfect vacation; it was a raw, often messy immersion into a new way of existing. Through her journey, we see a throughline emerge: the idea that bravery isn’t the absence of fear, but the willingness to move forward while your hands are shaking.

In the pages that follow, we are going to look at what it really means to build a life from scratch in a foreign land. We’ll talk about the grit required to handle medical emergencies in places where you can’t describe your pain, and the humility needed to accept that your way of doing things isn’t the only way. Most importantly, we’re going to look at why you deserve to stop punishing yourself for your mistakes and start enjoying the metaphorical gelato of your life. This isn’t just a story about Italy; it’s a manual for anyone who feels like they’re waiting for permission to be happy. Let’s dive into how facing the things that terrify us can lead us to the most beautiful destinations imaginable.

Discover why the moments that scare you the most are actually the building blocks of a stronger, more capable version of yourself.

Learn why the frustration of navigating a new culture is actually a sign that you are expanding your boundaries and discovering new strengths.

Understand how letting go of the need to be right and embracing a sense of humility can unlock a more authentic way of experiencing the world.

Explore the honest, bittersweet reality of major life changes and why it’s okay to feel homesick even when you’re living your dream.

Discover how the Italian philosophy of presence can teach you to slow down, savor the moment, and recognize that you are worthy of joy.

As we reach the end of this journey through the cobbled streets and emotional landscapes of a life moved abroad, the central message remains clear: the life you want is usually on the other side of the things you’re afraid of. We’ve seen how resilience isn’t a gift, but a result of choosing to stay when things get difficult. We’ve explored how the frustration of being a beginner is actually the feeling of your world expanding. And we’ve learned that the bittersweet pangs of homesickness are a natural part of any great adventure.

Kacie Rose’s experience reminds us that while the ‘perfect’ life doesn’t exist, a deeply meaningful one does. It’s a life built on a foundation of humility, a willingness to laugh at your own mistakes, and the courage to ask for help. Most importantly, it’s a life that makes room for the ‘good gelato’—those small, everyday moments of joy that remind us why we’re here in the first place.

The actionable takeaway here is to start looking at your own life through the lens of a traveler. Where are you playing it too safe? What ‘scary’ conversation or ‘uncomfortable’ change have you been avoiding? You don’t necessarily need to move to Italy to experience this transformation. You can start by simply deciding to be more curious than judgmental, and more present than productive.

Remember that you are capable of navigating the unknown, whether that’s a foreign country or a new chapter in your career or personal life. Embrace the messiness, trust in your ability to figure it out, and don’t forget to stop and savor the sweetness along the way. Because, in the end, you don’t just deserve to survive your life; you deserve to enjoy it.

About this book

What is this book about?

Have you ever wondered what would happen if you actually chased that wild dream of moving abroad? This guide explores that very question through the lens of Kacie Rose, who traded her life as a dancer in New York for the cobblestone streets of Italy. It is not just a travelogue; it is a deep dive into the psychology of resilience and the art of cultural adaptation. The promise of this narrative is to show you that the most frightening moments of your life are often the ones that build your strongest foundations. From navigating the confusing bureaucracy of a foreign post office to dealing with the crushing weight of homesickness, the story illustrates how discomfort is a prerequisite for growth. By the end, you will understand how to stop viewing failure as an ending and instead see it as a necessary part of a life well-lived. It is an invitation to embrace the unknown, find humor in the struggle, and ultimately realize that you are capable of far more than you ever imagined.

Book Information

Rating:

Genra:

Biographies & Memoirs, Motivation & Inspiration, Personal Development

Topics:

Confidence Building, Culture, Growth Mindset, Mindset, Resilience

Publisher:

DK

Language:

English

Publishing date:

May 28, 2024

Lenght:

17 min 47 sec

About the Author

Kacie Rose

Kacie Rose is a former professional dancer who transitioned into a career as a successful travel entrepreneur and social media creator. With a dedicated community of over 1.5 million followers, she has become a go-to source for humorous and relatable insights into the realities of life abroad. Her work focuses on navigating culture shock and finding joy in the unexpected challenges of international travel.

Ratings & Reviews

Ratings at a glance

4

Overall score based on 156 ratings.

What people think

Listeners find this title to be a charming and effortless listen that provides wonderful life guidance. The work functions as an affectionate tribute to travel, with one listener reporting that it encouraged them to add a move to Italy to their bucket list. Additionally, listeners value the book’s genuine nature and motivating message, while one review points out that it offers a fervent appeal to embrace life to the max.

Top reviews

Pensri

Wow, this was such a refreshing and authentic read! I’ve been impatiently waiting for this book since the announcement, and it did not disappoint. Reading Kacie’s words felt like sitting at a cafe with a best friend who is finally telling you all the juicy details of her move abroad. The humor is top-notch—the story about the grappa had me laughing out loud in public. Beyond the laughs, there’s a really passionate plea here to live your life to the fullest. She doesn’t sugarcoat the struggles of being an expat, but she shows how the growth is worth the discomfort. This is essentially a love letter to travel and personal bravery. If you’ve ever felt stuck or afraid to take a leap, please read this. You deserve good gelato and a life you actually enjoy!

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Satit

Truly, this is a passionate plea to start living your life to the absolute fullest. I finished this book in two sittings because Kacie’s energy is just infectious. I’ve never been to Italy, but after reading her descriptions of the food and the pace of life, it’s now the #1 spot on my bucket list. The way she talks about 'doing the shit that scares you' really resonated with me. It’s not just about moving to a different country; it’s about the small daily choices to be brave. The layout of the book is also really fun and matches her aesthetic perfectly. People complaining about the font or the quotes are missing the point—it’s supposed to be a fun, lighthearted experience! This book gave me the confidence boost I didn't know I needed. Highly recommend for any restless souls out there.

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Komsan

Look, I’m not usually one for influencer books, but this one is special. Kacie Rose manages to translate her digital joy onto the page in a way that feels 100% genuine. The humor is outstanding, and the vulnerability she shows regarding her anxiety and fears is so relatable. I actually loved the mix of self-empowerment and travel stories. It felt like she was using her experiences as a roadmap for the rest of us. The lessons about slowing down and enjoying small pleasures are things I’ve already started trying to implement in my own life. It’s a quick read, but the message sticks with you long after you close the cover. If you want to feel inspired and have a good laugh at some awkward travel stories, this is the book for you. Five stars for the heart and soul put into this!

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Tong

Ever wonder why we’re so obsessed with the American hustle? Kacie’s book is a beautiful reminder that there is another way to live. I picked this up during a period of massive burnout, and her perspective on the community-focused culture of Italy made me incredibly emotional. I loved how she contrasted her 'Type A' personality with the slower pace of Florence. While the writing is definitely casual and 'influencer-style,' it feels very authentic to her voice. Personally, I think the advice about taking risks and embracing failure is something a lot of people need to hear right now. It isn't just about travel; it’s about having the courage to change your life when you aren't happy. It made me want to put a move to Europe on my bucket list immediately. Such an easy, inspiring read!

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Yindee

The chapter on why you shouldn't shoot the grappa was worth the price of the book alone! Frankly, Kacie Rose is just such a likable narrator that it’s hard not to root for her. This book is a wonderful blend of humor and heartfelt life lessons. I particularly appreciated her honesty about the 'lonely' side of moving to a new country where you don't speak the language. It isn't all sunshine and pasta; there are real tears and frustrations. Her boyfriend sounds like an absolute saint, and their relationship is sweet to read about. While some might find the writing style a bit too informal, I thought it made the book feel more accessible and real. It’s the perfect gift for someone about to embark on their first solo trip or study abroad semester. It’s encouraging, funny, and deeply human.

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Penelope

Picked this up because I’m planning my own Italian escape this summer. I wanted a bit of insight into what it’s actually like to live there, and Kacie provided that with a lot of humor and heart. Is it a literary masterpiece? No. Is it a delightful, easy read that makes you feel like anything is possible? Absolutely. I really appreciated her perspective on 'independence' and how the US version of it can be so isolating compared to the community-driven lifestyle in Italy. Some of the self-help bits were a little repetitive, and I could have done with fewer 'don't be afraid' pep talks, but overall the vibes were immaculate. It’s a very comforting book. It reminded me that making mistakes is just part of the adventure. Definitely listen to the audiobook if you can; Kacie’s narration adds an extra layer of charm!

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William

After following Kacie on TikTok for a year, I had high hopes for this release. It’s definitely a cute, feel-good read, but I have to be honest—it’s very surface level. The stories about her language mistakes and fashion faux pas are genuinely funny and relatable, yet they never seem to go beyond the initial punchline. I found myself skimming through the 'inspirational' sections because they felt a bit too much like a cheesy self-help book. To be fair, her love for Italy shines through every page, and it’s a great companion for a beach day. However, the layout with the huge font and random pull-quotes felt like a tactic to hit a specific page count. It’s a light snack of a book when I was really craving a full Italian meal. Good, but not great.

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Jom

To be fair, I think I would have enjoyed this much more as an audiobook. Kacie is such a charismatic person, and her personality is her biggest strength. On the page, however, the structure is a bit messy. It flips between a travelogue and a self-empowerment guide so often that I lost the thread of her actual story. The chapters are very short, and some could have easily been condensed into a single paragraph. I also noticed the repetitive nature of the 'advice' sections, which started to feel like filler. Not gonna lie, I was disappointed by how little we actually learned about the locals or the history of the places she visited. It’s very focused on her internal monologue. It’s a sweet read for a teenager or someone in their early 20s, but it lacked the depth I usually look for in memoirs.

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Petch

Not what I expected from a travel memoir, unfortunately. While I absolutely adore Kacie’s social media presence and her vibrant personality, this book felt more like an over-extended blog post than a polished piece of literature. The transition between personal anecdotes and self-help advice was quite jarring and didn't flow naturally at all. Truth is, the writing relies way too heavily on parentheticals and repetitive phrases like 'do the shit that scares you.' I was hoping for deep, immersive descriptions of Florence, but instead, I got a lot of rambling about general life lessons that felt aimed at a much younger audience. It’s a very superficial dive into her life abroad. If you’re a die-hard fan, you might enjoy the fluff, but for anyone looking for a substantial memoir about Italian culture, this misses the mark. It felt like the editor just gave up halfway through.

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Tan

I've been a fan of her content for ages, but this book really missed the mark for me. My biggest gripe is the editing—or lack thereof. There were so many parenthetical remarks that it became genuinely distracting to read. The book attempts to be a mix of Eat Pray Love and a modern self-help guide, but it doesn't quite succeed at either. The stories about Italy are charming but brief, and then the narrative immediately pivots into telling the reader how they should feel or what they should do with their life. It felt very preachy at times. I wish she had just told the stories and let the lessons emerge naturally rather than hitting us over the head with them. I’ll stick to her TikToks from now on; they capture the magic of Italy much better than these pages did.

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