Attachment
Anxious, avoidant or secure? These books explain where attachment patterns start in childhood and how they show up in love, so you can understand your style and your partner’s.
Attachment Library

Becoming Attached: First Relationships and How They Shape Our Capacity to Love

Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find – and Keep – Love

Daring to Trust: Opening Ourselves to Real Love and Intimacy

Hold on to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers

Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love

Getting The Love You Want: A Guide for Couples

How to Be the Love You Seek: Break Cycles, Find Peace, and Heal Your Relationships

How to Be an Adult in Relationships: The Five Keys to Mindful Loving

Love Sense: The Revolutionary New Science of Romantic Relationships

Liberated Love: Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire

Parenting from the Inside Out: How a Deeper Self-Understanding Can Help You Raise Children Who Thrive: 10th Anniversary Edition

Raising a Secure Child: How Circle of Security Parenting Can Help You Nurture Your Child’s Attachment, Emotional Resilience, and Freedom to Explore

Raising Securely Attached Kids: Use Connection-Focused Parenting to Build Confidence and Empathy

Psychedelics and Psychotherapy: The Healing Potential of Expanded States

Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy

Platonic: How the Science of Attachment Can Help You Make - and Keep - Friends

The Connected Child: Bring Hope and Healing to Your Adoptive Family

The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read (and Your Children Will Be Glad That You Did)

The Baby Book: Everything You Need to Know About Your Baby from Birth to Age Two

The Overthinking In Relationships Fix: Toxic Thoughts That Can Destroy Your Relationship And How To Fix Them

The Power of Showing Up: How Parental Presence Shapes Who Our Kids Become and How Their Brains Get Wired

The Power of Discord: why the ups and downs of relationships are the secret to building intimacy, resilience, and trust

The Polyvagal Theory: Neurophysiological Foundations of Emotions, Attachment, Communication, and Self-regulation

Unrequited: The Thinking Woman’s Guide to Romantic Obsession

Transcend: The New Science of Self-Actualization

Think Like a Psychologist: How to Analyze Emotions, Read Body Language and Behavior, Understand Motivations, and Decipher Intentions

Why We Love: The Nature and Chemistry of Romantic Love

Why Love Matters: How Affection Shapes a Baby's Brain

You Can Thrive After Narcissistic Abuse: The #1 System for Recovering from Toxic Relationships

Wired for Love: How Understanding Your Partner's Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship